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031 I Jeanette Cochran on Empowering Women in Ministry: Breaking Limiting Beliefs

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In this episode, Jeanette Cochran shares her journey from conservative Christian upbringing to becoming an executive pastor for twenty years, and now a leadership coach for other women in ministry. In our conversation, she discusses the impact of limiting beliefs on women in faith communities, the nature of leadership, and how spiritual practices can empower women to lead fully in their calling.

You can learn more about Jeannette’s ministry at jeannettecochran.com and also follow her on Facebook, Instagram, and Linkedin.

I’ve been listening to Jeannette’s excellent podcast, Empowered to Lead, for a few years now and highly recommend you subscribe! You can find it on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube, as well as other places.

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TRANSCRIPT:

Rev. Ruth Perry (00:16)
My guest today is Jeanette Cochrane, a leadership coach, former executive pastor and speaker, who has spent decades helping women reclaim their God-given authority and break free from limiting beliefs that have held them back. Her ministry focuses on spiritual formation, leadership development and dismantling the inner narratives that keep women from living fully in their calling. I’ve been listening to Jeanette Cochran’s podcast, Empowered to Lead, for many years myself and learning a lot from her. And I’m just delighted that you would come on my podcast today. Thank you so much, Jeanette.

Jeannette Cochran (00:49)
Well, thank you for having me, Ruth. I’m thrilled to be here and this conversation is something that I’m passionate about and always enjoy talking about.

Rev. Ruth Perry (00:58)
Well, before we dive into talking about the limiting beliefs that women hold coming from Christian upbringing, can you start by telling us more about yourself and your own faith background?

Jeannette Cochran (01:10)
Sure. I am in Maryland. I was a pastor at a local church here, a multicultural church. I was served as the executive pastor there for 20 years. Previous to that, I was the children’s pastor. I am married. I have three adult children and two granddaughters that I adore. And many years ago, I would have said that I kind of stumbled into pastoral leadership. Because it took me several years into my journey to realize that I had always been gifted and called to be a pastor. But I was like many of us, I was raised in a very conservative, very traditional, patriarchal Christian church, and we didn’t have women pastors.

And we didn’t have women deacons or elders or ministry directors, anything. It was all done by the men. And so I loved Jesus very much, but I never saw myself as a pastor because I also am very feminine, right? I love getting dressed up, doing my hair, doing my nails. I love all the female things. So being a pastor was a very male thing to me. And it wasn’t until my young 20s when my husband and I found a local church in our area, and it was fortunately a much healthier church and began to open my eyes to different belief systems in within the Christian faith, very orthodox. They were very committed to scripture. And one of those things was this was a church that had women in what they called their leadership council, many would call elders or trustees.

And women were allowed to preach, and women were allowed to do all of the things. Now, granted, we didn’t have a ton of women leaders, but women were allowed to do that. And so eventually I felt called into ministry and went to seminary and began to study for myself what the scriptures say about women and leadership and came to a completely different understanding and realized that in the gospel, in the redemption of Jesus, that God is trying to right what went wrong at the fall. And this separation and divide and limiting women is a result of sin. And as followers of Christ, we’re called to live into the new creation, into the redemption of all people and all things. And so that means that men and women are called to lead together.

So on this side of my journey, I can look back and I can see who I was as a leader and as a young person and realized this was always my path. I just could not hear God’s voice because it took me a while to realize that this was even an option before I realized that this is what I was created to do.

Rev. Ruth Perry (03:56)
I think it’s so interesting how powerful representation is for young people growing up in the church. If you don’t see someone that looks like you, then you don’t even imagine that path for yourself. What do you think that’s about?

Jeannette Cochran (04:09)
Absolutely. And also having people speak into your life. I was discipled as a teenager in the church, and I know that there were young men that the leaders would look at and say, I see leadership in you. I see that you could be a pastor. I never even had anyone in my church say that I was a leader. I was almost 25 years old before I had another Christian look at me and say, You’re a leader. And so I never saw myself as a leader. Now, those who know me today would say that seems kind of ludicrous. But in fact, much of what was in me oftentimes was seen kind of rebellion or pushing the limits.

And I definitely had that in me, but really if that had been developed, it would have been a leadership skill because I was very inquisitive. I I wasn’t one that wanted to follow the rules just for following the rules. I asked a lot of questions. Even in my friend group, I was influential in what we would do or the activities that we were involved in. I had influence.

But no one developed that and called that leadership. So it wasn’t until I was a young adult that I began being invited into leadership development paired with discipleship and understanding how to live as a Christian leader. And so I had a lot of undoing. And I think that’s why I’m passionate and called to this work today, because over many years, as I stepped into leadership, I began to kind of peel back the layers, right?

I think we first step into becoming a leader and we own who we are, but along the way there are lots of layers that God strips away to help us start to recognize things that we’ve internalized that are not in alignment with who we are in Christ, that are not in alignment with who we are as leaders. And so we have to peel that away so that we can step more fully into who God has called us to be. And to have the kingdom impact that he wants us to have.

Rev. Ruth Perry (06:14)
When you realize that your gifts hadn’t been called out and recognized growing up, what was the emotional feeling of that realization? And then also what was it like to then try to catch up?

Jeannette Cochran (06:26)
Such a good, such a good question. Because I know as I talk to women, a lot of them feel behind, like we’ve missed something. And so honestly, yes, at first when I first started awakening to my call, there were times where I would look back and I would think, I wonder what my life would have been if.

Because I also started college later in my life. I went to seminary later in my life. And so I did sit with that for a while. And I eventually came to the position of letting that go and realizing I not only realizing, but believing. The path that I walked was exactly the path that I was supposed to walk.

Because I am who I am today, and I can do the work that I do today exactly because of those experiences. And so I also know that the scripture says that nothing happens that is completely outside the hand of God. Now that that doesn’t mean God was happy about it or God caused it, but He saw what was happening, and that, you know, all of those things that happened to us, God redeems for his good. And so it’s because I grew up in a very conservative fundamentalist Christian environment that I understand how fundamentalists believe and think. I can have those conversations. I can reach back and I can say, you know, you can love scripture and you can be committed to the authority of the Bible.

And be an egalitarian and realize that men and women are called to live and lead in mutuality. I can have those conversations because I walked that path. And so I believe that all of that learning, though some of it was hard, was a part of bringing me to where I am today.

Rev. Ruth Perry (08:12)
Yeah. Can you tell me more about what is leadership? What are those gifts like and what is your leadership gifting in particular?

Jeannette Cochran (08:20)
I would say leadership is just influence. That’s a definition that many people say, but it it really is. It’s influence. And so what we have to realize is we can lead people astray if we’re influencing them in the wrong direction. We sometimes influence people without even realizing we’re influencing them. So leadership is influence.

And developing that influence so that you are intentional and you are leading and living from your values and moving people and your life in an intentional direction is really important. And we lead from who we are. So this is why I believe pairing leadership development with spiritual formation, with theological education is so important because you’re gonna lead from what you believe, you’re gonna lead from who you are, you’re gonna lead from the practices that you have placed in your life and how you’re leading yourself is how you’re gonna show up. So we’re all called to lead ourselves. When you look at the gospels, I think that’s what we see that Jesus did.

With those who were closest to him with the twelve, which I will say also remember that the disciples of Jesus did include women. They’re the the gospels tell us that there were women that were traveling with them, that Mary sat at the feet of Jesus. And that means that she was a learner, she was a disciple. So Jesus was developing those around him not to just be followers, but to be followers that would then go and become leaders. And so as a follower of Christ, I believe that everyone has some leadership potential that we are called to develop so that we are ushering in the kingdom of God. And sometimes we can mistakenly think that leadership in the church is just for a select few. It’s just for the pastors or maybe the elders.

But we are all called to lead. We are all given the Spirit of God. And sometimes God calls you to lead in the marketplace. Sometimes God calls you to lead in education. Wherever you go, you should show up as who you are in Christ with your gifts and leading yourself first so that you are an example of what the kingdom of God is. And then using those gifts in order to further God’s kingdom wherever he’s placed you. So I believe that each of us has leadership that we’re supposed to be developing. And then God calls us to use that in different places within our life.

Rev. Ruth Perry (10:51)
So what what are your particular leadership giftings in pastoral ministry, Jeanette?

Jeannette Cochran (10:57)
Well, I would say my leadership gifts, I am a visionary. I am a high extrovert and I’m creative. And so I do tend to gravitate towards those leadership roles, and I do well where we are envisioning, creating new initiatives and building teams, I’m definitely a people person. So bringing people around and developing them and helping them to find their place on the team and then empowering them to go. And in some respects, that may be why as a young person I didn’t really always fit the mold for what the women were doing. I’m not good at, you know, things like cooking.

I’m not good at the the typical like homemaking roles, although it is important to me. You know, I’m a a wife and a mother and and my home environment is important to me. I’ll just but I’ll just say I’m not great at that. I’m not great at hospitality. I I look to others to help me develop those kinds of gifts. And so my gifts do tend to be more in developing other people, casting vision, teaching and helping the community to figure out where is God calling us to go and move together in the same direction. And because of that, I need people around me who like to implement. So I’ve been known to start ministries and be really excited about it. But then once they get up and they’re running, I want to hand them off to someone else. That’s what I did again and again in my church.

I want to hand them off to somebody that’s really good at creating the systems and keeping things maintained and helping, you know, people to keep moving forward. I want to move on to something new. And so my my gifts oftentimes do show up in areas that are more like entrepreneurship, where you’re creating something new, you’re getting it going, you’re inviting people in, and then you’re developing them so that you can hand that ministry off. To the next leader who’s gonna take it to that next level.

Rev. Ruth Perry (13:03)
Can you describe how you decided to transition from being a pastor to being a coach?

Jeannette Cochran (13:09)
Yeah, that was such a hard decision. And God really was developing this in me for I want to say a decade because early on, I didn’t really have a desire to develop women. I wasn’t really focused on women’s leadership development. In fact, many of the women’s ministry initiatives that I saw happening around me, I wasn’t as interested in. in large part because a lot of oftentimes women’s ministry is not focusing on leadership and growth and impact.

You know, in in many churches and sometimes in our own church for for women, they have women’s teas. And for the men, they are talking about, you know, how to lead your in the marketplace or how to lead in the church. And that’s not not to diminish tea. I love tea. I love conversations with women. But there weren’t a lot of places where women were talking about leadership, where women were talking about goals, where women were talking about having an impact.

And so for a long time I didn’t feel called to that. And then over the years, as I was leading as an executive pastor, and I was in an egalitarian church where women could lead at all levels, but there’s a bit of a twist to that because our church was a part of a denomination, the Evangelical Free Church, that did not welcome women into all levels of leadership, where women were not allowed to be ordained, where they believed that the office of pastor and of elder was only for men. But because it is a denomination where there was freedom for the churches to operate how they wanted to, we had made that distinction. And we did have women pastors and women functioning as elders.

And they were fine with that. They were fine. They knew that, and they were fine with that. But they were clear that they were not going to change their position on ordaining women. And so, in that structure, I really was not welcomed into a lot of the conversations as an executive pastor. So there was an executive pastor network within our denomination. And I actually attended one year.

And there were a few men that welcomed me into the conversation, but most of the men there, although they were kind, I feel like they didn’t know what to do with me. It was almost like, why are you here? And so I never went back. Because frankly, I was busy. I was leading a growing church.

My church was at the time was larger than many of the men in that executive pastor’s network. And so I had a lot of work to do. I had a lot of people to care for. I had staff to develop. And so I realized: why am I gonna spend three days, fly across the country, go sit in settings where I’m not gonna gain anything from it because I had work that God had called me to do and I needed to do it. So I never went back.

And so that was my first kind of awakening where I felt God saying, Jeanette, I’ve called you to this role not just to develop your leadership, but because there are women that are in really difficult situations in churches where I have called them. And they are trying to figure out how to navigate that. They’re trying to figure out how to connect their calling with the scriptures. And so over time I began God saying, I have work for you to do that is beyond your own church and is for the kingdom of God. And so in those years, I started then speaking out. I started a blog. I eventually started my podcast, all with the idea of just sharing to women.

Different ways of understanding the Bible. Then over time I felt God really showing me that I couldn’t hold both. I had to choose one or the other because it was too much. And so I eventually came to the realization that God was calling me to let my church pastoring go. And I loved my church. I loved the people at my church. And so that was really a hard decision. I loved my team.

But I knew that to be faithful to what God was calling me to meant that I had to spend more time on reaching people beyond my congregation. And so I did that in December of 2024 was when I officially resigned. We also had a an outreach center there, the Community Hope Center, that I launched during COVID with a small team there at my church that had.

Taken off. And so I was developing leaders to take that over so I could let that go. And that also was particularly hard because that was a vision that God had given our church and had given me deeply decades before it started. And so when God brought that to fruition and it was developed and serving thousands of people, and I had to kind of hand that baby over.

But if you see kind of a theme here, that’s who God has created me to be, to give me a vision and to start it. And then eventually God has always called me to hand it over. He did that in my children’s ministry. He did that in my executive pastoral role. He did that at the Community Hope Center. And now I’ve got this new vision that quite frankly, Ruth, I don’t know how it’s all gonna play out.

I don’t have a clear pathway. I just knew I needed to trust God and let go of what I was holding on to tightly so that I had open hands to embrace what he had for me in this new season. And God is opening doors and done amazing things. And one of the things that I love along the way is the incredible women that I’ve met with leadership gifts and some of those women that

I just have been humbled and honored to even walk with them because they have incredible, incredible gifts. Gifts of preaching, women who are brilliant, way smarter than me. And as I have been coaching them, coming to find out that they’re some of them have been caught in churches for decades where their gifts have been minimized and sidelined. And that’s not to say.

That God hasn’t used their gifts, but they are recognizing that they have teaching and preaching and leadership gifts that need to be unleashed beyond just the children’s ministry or the women’s ministry. That it needs to go beyond that so that the whole church can benefit from the wisdom and the messages, the influence that God has given them the revelation, quite frankly, from the Spirit of God that lives in them because they have the Holy Spirit and the gifting. And so it’s been such an honor to place such a small role even in their lives because some of those women are doing incredible things and are way more influential than I am today. And I I applaud that. I salute that because that’s what we need in this next generation of women leaders.

Rev. Ruth Perry (20:13)
That’s amazing. And I’m just so thankful just for the little bit of your work that I’ve experienced by listening to your podcast. Your content is always really wonderful and really helpful. And maybe I need to look into some more coaching with you, Jeanette. I would love to be empowered to lead.

Jeannette Cochran (20:31)
I would love that.

Rev. Ruth Perry (20:32)
I’m thinking about what a process it’s been for myself from the time that God called me to become a pastor. And I was in a conservative Christian denomination and family. And so I didn’t have that empowered support in ministry and in that process. And I found a lot of the learning and growing online, like how I found your podcast. But it’s been wild to me, just even in the last few years, the revelations I’ve had about my imposter syndrome and about still feeling like I need to follow my husband in ministry and kind of branching off from that and going into my own path and exploring doors as they open for me without my husband. You know, it’s been really interesting for me. Can you talk to my audience about the limiting beliefs that women inherit in our conservative Christian families and churches?

Jeannette Cochran (21:21)
Yes, that is so common what you have expressed. Because when we internalize things for so much of our life, especially for those of us who grew up in conservative Christianity, our most formative years were spent giving us a description of what a biblical woman is. And in those circles, oftentimes a faithful biblical woman always stands behind another man, whether that man is her husband or a pastor, and when we’re young, our fathers. And so even when we know, when we come to this understanding of what the Bible says, it can take a while before we start to realize that some of the things that are causing us to doubt our voice or to doubt the gifts that God has given us.

Are because we’re just so used to being the the person that’s second in line. We’re so used to softening our voice or hedging the way we speak instead of showing up and now it I’m not suggesting that we show up arrogant, but to just show up confident in who we are, that we have gifts.

And those gifts have been given by God. And therefore we can trust that the spirit that is developing those gifts is going to use those gifts. And sometimes it shows up just in the way we carry ourselves. It can show up in the way that we hesitate to say what we think.

It can show up in the way that we maybe give more weight to someone else’s opinion, even though at first we had a really strong opinion, and then we get someone else’s opinion and we think, well, maybe I should defer to them. And a lot of times that really is just coming to this place of learning to trust that the wisdom that I have and the gifts that I have are enough. They’re enough to go forward and to do the work that God has called me to do.

And, you know, fortunately for me, my husband has never felt called to ministry. So I didn’t have to worry about that. In fact, most of the time, or I should say, full-time ministry, he was clear that my wife is called to pastoral ministry, I am not. And he was always very encouraging and was very supportive. He saw my gifts. And he believed that I had something to offer. And so we didn’t really have that tension at home. In fact, our marriage really operated very egalitarian. And now we used a lot of the complementarian language early in our marriage, but we operated egalitarian.

So when I came into that understanding and when my husband came into that understanding, we really didn’t have to change the way that we operated. And so I didn’t really have that. But I do think that for many women, it can be years of conversations with their spouse. I think, just over time, just starting to understand where are the the places that we aren’t feeling as confident and then exploring why is that. And sometimes it’s just because it’s new. We’ve never done it before. And you know, for women.

I do think it’s important to say that we have to actually learn to recognize what happens in our body and in our nervous system when we start to step out in new directions. Because for so much of history, women who stepped out of line, who stepped out of what was socially acceptable, it was dangerous in some situations, right? When you look at the scriptures, you see that that women could be ostracized from the community and then they economically could not take care of themselves, or physically, we physically could not did not have the might and the power to protect ourselves. And so in much of human history and in culture, it was dangerous.

And for those of us who grew up in very traditional fundamentalist Christianity, it might have been a different kind of dangerous, but it also was dangerous sometimes to speak up, to say what you thought, or to just even take leadership. Am I stepping in a direction that I’m I’m not supposed to is this out of God’s will? And you might have been criticized or you might have been marginalized. Or for some women, you know, we’re still hearing the stories today in some Christian communities, there is abuse taking place. So I share that to say sometimes when we say, Well, I’ve got something in me that I need to fix, you know, I’ve got imposter syndrome. What I want us to understand, some of the way that we respond, that our nervous system responds and our thoughts play out, is completely normal.

Because we are now, we’re in a place where many of us were like, it is safe. It is safe to use our gifts. We’ve even been invited to use our gifts, but we have to recognize this is a departure from the past. And so we have to start to recognize where we may be holding back and start to dismantle some of those beliefs, learn to regulate our nervous system and step more fully and confidently in that peace into those areas that God is calling us to lead.

Rev. Ruth Perry (26:29)
A few years ago I read a biography of Eugene Peterson and I read Phillip Yancey’s autobiography the same winter. And I just remember being blown away because I thought they were both so ambitious. And I had never really thought about ambition within Christian ministry. I just felt like you were called and gifted and you serve. Service is the driving force, is what I would think.

And I would try to explain as I was talking about these books with people, and I just could never remember the word ambition. It was like I was allergic to it. And I think that I was allergic to ambition. And I did look down on it a little bit growing up Christian, where I don’t think it was positively reinforced unless I was ambitious to serve others. And so how do we undo that kind of formation from our childhood where we peel back the onion layers and we recognize that there’s something about the way that we are that isn’t authentic to who God made me to be. It’s something I’ve picked up because of my cultural conditioning.

Jeannette Cochran (27:31)
I think ambition is such a big issue, particularly for women. And the Bible does not say that ambition is bad. It says that selfish ambition is bad. And so we do need to ask ourselves: where is that ambition coming from? Like what is it that we want to do? Is it that we want to make a name for ourselves? Is it is it that we want to hoard resources and live in a a big mansion and you know have jets and planes? And you know, we see that happening in some Christian circles. And I think that needs to be questioned.

Rev. Ruth Perry (28:08)
Yeah.

Jeannette Cochran (28:09)
And and so both men and women have ambition and probably at different levels. And I think it comes back to what has God gifted us for and what has God called us to. And but I think the unfortunate thing is in so much of the theology and teaching for women is we have been taught and conditioned to question our motives all the time.

Always question our motives more than the the men and the boys. And I’ll and I’ll say give an example. So just this was just recently. I heard a podcast of a man and a woman speaking, and it was a complementarian church that believed that women should not be pastors, and the woman was making the statement.

That women can lead, but they shouldn’t be pastors. And she said if a woman wants to be a pastor, she really needs to ask herself why? What are her motives? Why does she want that platform? Which, you know, I could say, okay, that’s a great question. But why do we not say that to the men when they want to be pastors? Right? Well, we don’t. We go, wow, God must be calling you. You want to give your life to Jesus. That’s fantastic.

But in many situations, if women want that, the question is, you must have ulterior motives. And so we’re constantly given this teaching and this feedback that causes us to question our motives. And so whenever we want something that seems big or that’s gonna put us out in the limelight, like we’re gonna be seen by others. They may criticize us.

The first thing that’s gonna happen is we are gonna question ourselves. And I think the question that we need to ask ourselves is: okay, is God calling me to this? Do I feel a stirring that these are gifts that I have that I wanna use? And what is it for? Is it because I want to advance God’s kingdom? Is it because I want people to know Jesus? Is it because I want to love and serve and give to people? If so, go for it. Be ambitious.

Who can look at the Apostle Paul and say the Apostle Paul was not ambitious? In fact, you could look at Jesus and say, Jesus was ambitious. Jesus had a plan. He knew what he was called to. He knew how long he needed to stay somewhere. And he was like, hey, to his to his followers, no, we can’t stay here because I got other places to go and preach the gospel. He had an ambition for God.

And so instead of squelching that and stifling that in our women and our young girls, we need to develop that. We just need to help them make sure that they have the tools to explore that with the spirit. Make sure that they are learning scripture, make sure that they’re learning how to pray, how to listen to God. Develop those spiritual formation tools so that that ambition can be directed by the Holy Spirit.

But I think what we do is as soon as we see ambition in women, we start to question it and assume that it’s coming from ego, that it’s coming from a bad place. Instead of saying, hey, you’ve got ambition, that’s fantastic. Let’s talk about that. Let’s develop that for Jesus because the kingdom of God has a lot of work to do. We have a big world and we’re called to go. So let’s use that ambition in the right direction.

Rev. Ruth Perry (31:23)
I think what you said about the nervous system is really important too. Can you talk more about how our nervous system is connected to our calling and our ability to serve God?

Jeannette Cochran (31:33)
Absolutely. So it is so interesting if you look at neuroscience and how the brain works and what science is really affirming is really very similar to many of the ancient spiritual practices and what earlier Christians engaged in order to really find their centering in God and find peace and to really grow as a person. And so I really have connected much of what neuroscience has said to some of the ancient spiritual practices. So some of those practices would be centering prayer, lectio divina, even just sitting quietly and

Breathing deeply and resting, like that resting in the spirit of God, trying to be aware of God’s presence and connecting through our breath. And you know, when I was growing up, those kinds of practices were considered evil, like they were gonna lead you astray. And what I know today is that’s actually not true because we are whole beings.

God created us not just with a spirit, but with a body and a mind. And so much of what science is showing is doing very similar practices. They’re just pulling the God part out. And so I say, no, let’s engage those practices and let’s actually integrate our faith. Let’s realize that when we sit in silence and we notice our breath, what we’re doing is we’re sitting quietly in the presence of God. Right? Even when you think about the word breath, pneuma is in scripture, Spirit. There is also the word Yahweh, right, in the Hebrew. It was the name that God told Moses was his name. When when Moses is sent to Pharaoh.

And Moses says, but before I go, they’re gonna ask me who sent me, so who are you? And the name that God gives is Yahweh. And if you say that in the Hebrew, it’s actually pronounced with just the consonants. It’s actually the sound of breathing. That is the name of God. That’s the name that God gave to Moses. And so if you think about that, when we say the name of God in Hebrew, we’re just breathing. And so it’s almost the sense that to breathe is to say the name of God. To be alive is to acknowledge God, whether we know we’re acknowledging God or not. If we have breath in our lungs, we are acknowledging God. And so that’s where I say some of these modern practices that people are engaging in and finding peace and finding stillness, finding stress relief, I would argue they may not know that they’re sitting in the presence of God, but that’s what they’re doing.

And so I teach women and Christians to engage these practices with their heart and mind open, that they are engaging in the presence of God, that they are opening their whole self up to the Spirit of God to be calmed, to let the Spirit have more reign within them than the flesh. That’s what Paul says. He says we’re called to intentionally to put off the flesh and put on the spirit.

To not be led by our flesh, but to be more and more led by the Spirit of God. And so many of these ancient practices that in much of our Christian communities, especially I think in much of evangelicalism, have been lost, are practices that do that. They help us to rest our whole body, our nervous system in the presence of God, allow the Spirit of God to connect our mind and our heart, and open us up to be able to receive, I believe, more of God’s peace, more of God’s freedom, and more of revelation of God so that we can then move in our day with the spirit directing us more than the flesh directing us.

Rev. Ruth Perry (35:36)
That’s so powerful. Thank you so much for talking about that with us. So people can follow you. Your podcast is Empowered to Lead. Your website is Jeanette Cochrane with two N’s and two Ts dot com. And I’ll link these in the show notes. And how else can people engage with your ministry now?

Jeannette Cochran (35:54)
Well, thank you for asking. I would love if people would find me on Instagram. I’m on Instagram at Jeanette.cochran and send me a direct message, say hello, check out my podcast. I love to engage and get to know people who are listening and have these conversations and just really help more and more women and men find the truth of scripture and find ways that we can more fully utilize our gifts and lead together in mutuality for the good of God’s kingdom. And I’m grateful for this conversation. I’m grateful for the opportunity to meet incredible women like yourself, Reverend Ruth, doing the work that you’re doing. So thank you for what you do as well.

Rev. Ruth Perry (36:38)
Well, I’m incredibly grateful to you and to the many lessons you’ve taught me. I think good theology is so important and everything I’ve ever heard on your podcast is so grounded in scripture and in good theology and is helpful and I just highly recommend your work. And you can also come and speak and do trainings in person as well. So if you’re a ministry leader with a congregation that would benefit from having Jeanette. Then do reach out and thank you so much for being here today. Let me give you the last word before we sign off.

Jeannette Cochran (37:10)
Well, thank you again, Ruth, and thank you for your ministry. And just for those who are listening, I just wanna encourage men and women that we should all be developing our gifts to the fullest. Because we don’t want to end our life without having developed every ounce of potential that God has given us for the kingdom of God. And so that’s what I’m passionate about helping to empower everyone to lead, but especially to empower women to lead. So thanks for this opportunity.

Rev. Ruth Perry (37:41)
Thank you, God bless.


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029 I Lisa Sharon Harper on The Very Good Gospel and Fortune

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Several years ago, I read Lisa Sharon Harper’s book, The Very Good Gospel, and it rocked my world. She asked the simple question: was the evangelical gospel presentation good news to her enslaved great-great-great grandmother, who had lived a life of subjection and oppression, who had been repeatedly raped and whose children had been stolen from her, time and time again? Would hearing that she was a sinner and that God had to punish her for her sins, but Jesus took that punishment for her and if she believed that, she could go to heaven when she dies sound like good news to someone who had suffered so much in this life? And then Lisa Sharon Harper fleshed out very good news, of God’s plan of redemption and healing for all that was broken by the Fall, a vision of shalom and wholeness and peace for all of God’s creation. I highly recommend you read The Very Good Gospel!

So when Harper’s book, Fortune: How Race Broke My Family and the World–and How to Repair It All came out, I bought it immediately. But it sat on my nightstand for over a year as I worked up the nerve to be heartbroken for her family, and for all of the families that have been wrenched apart by racism in our country. It was another powerful read. Lisa Sharon Harper is a prophet of reconciliation and healing and I pray that those who have “ears to hear” will recognize that in our conversation.

In this episode, we talked about Harper’s faith background and journey to understanding justice. We talked about the biblical concept of shalom and its relevance today; about the historical roots of systemic racism in Christian theology, and how Plato and Aristotle have influenced Western theologians, leading to justification for colonization and slavery. And we talked about the biblical view of equality and justice in Paul’s writings, and the our future hope of reconciliation and new creation as Christians.

I hope you enjoy our conversation, and then be sure to follow Lisa Sharon Harper’s work and continue to learn from her.

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TRANSCRIPT:

Rev. Ruth Perry (00:17)
My guest today is Lisa Sharon Harper, who has maybe more than anyone else, impacted my own faith as someone who I’ve read and followed for a long time. And so I’m just brimming with gratitude today that you would come on my podcast. And I just want to say right out from the gate that this is something that I know about you, is that you love people.

And that your ministry is coming from a good place. You’re a good person with a massive heart. And you coming here today is just another sign of the goodness of Lisa Sharon Harper. And so I’m thrilled that you would come on today so I can introduce you to my audience.

Lisa Sharon Harper (00:53)
O my goodness. Thank you so much, Reverend Perry. I mean, it’s actually a real honor to be with you and your community today. And I am honored to be a part of your story, any part of your story. Thank you so much for reaching out and I’m excited to be in conversation with you.

Rev. Ruth Perry (01:09)
Well, I had you on to tell your story, but let me just say why you’re such a big part of my story before we start. I’m probably the evangelical church’s golden child. I couldn’t have been a better evangelical. That was how I was raised. Not in the Bible belt, but very influenced by the evangelical culture in my formation years.

I went to a Christian college, Gordon College, to study music so I could do music ministry in the church because I didn’t think women could have this kind of ministry that I have today.

Lisa Sharon Harper (01:40)
Come on.

Rev. Ruth Perry (01:41)
And while I was at Gordon College, they advertised a spring mission trip to go build a house for Habitat for Humanity. And I signed up because I thought the student leader was really cute and maybe I’d get to know him. But they had too many people sign up, so they put half of us into a mission trip to Washington, DC to learn about racial reconciliation. And I did not know that I didn’t know so many things. And I’m continuing to learn. That was 24 years ago. White evangelicals do not know a lot. And one of the

Lisa Sharon Harper (02:11)
Yeah. Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (02:12)
biggest lessons that I learned that week was to listen better. And I learned that most white evangelicals are only listening, of the people that they are friends with and following, one percent is non-white. And so the first

Lisa Sharon Harper (02:24)
Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (02:24)
thing I did 24 years ago is I tried to diversify my algorithm. And I was just listening to all male pastors and book writers. And I started, I don’t remember exactly when I found your ministry, but I followed you and I devoured

The very good gospel in twenty sixteen. I just read Fortune this this summer.

Lisa Sharon Harper (02:48)
Good.

Rev. Ruth Perry (02:48)
But The Very Good Gospel really changed my theology in profound ways.

Lisa Sharon Harper (02:52)
Mm-hmm.

Rev. Ruth Perry (02:53)
And so welcome. Can you tell us, Lisa, a little bit about your faith background and I’m especially interested in hearing about where you came from and how you came to your first pilgrimage, because pilgrimage is a big part of what you do. So could we start there today?

Lisa Sharon Harper (03:07)
Well, that’s really great. First of all, I wanna say I see your Ruby Woo lipstick. Hello. Speaking of pilgrimages, we did this for those who don’t know. We used to do a pilgrimage called the Ruby Woo pilgrimage. It was a women’s empowerment pilgrimage for evangelical women. And we did three of them and they were amazing. And actually we were gonna keep it going, but then COVID happened and you know.

So but my story, I can’t start my story at myself. It has to begin with my ancestors. And the reason for that is because there’s a larger story than just my decision to follow Jesus at the altar in 1983, August 21st, around 9 30 PM at a Sunday evening camp church meeting. That’s where, white evangelicals will begin the story, right? Because that’s the date that I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior.

Or what I like to call the date I jumped the broom with Jesus. But if I’m honest, and also for us to appreciate that moment and what came after, we have to go back because my family is a black family in America. And we actually have a deep and long history with the Episcopal Church in America, the black Episcopal Church in America.

If you’ve read Fortune, Fortune Game McGee was born and raised in 1687 on the eastern shore of Maryland. And her family line goes in a few different directions, and one of those directions goes to two historians have traced her progeny to James Fourten, who changed his name to Fortin, we believe, when he went up north, in order to avoid slave catchers who were looking for Fortunes because they were usually escaped enslaved people. But he became one of the richest people in Philadelphia, regardless of race. He was one of the richest people in Philadelphia, and he helped to fund the abolitionist movement.

He also helped to start the black stream of the Episcopal Church, when Absalom Jones founded St. Thomas’s Episcopal African Episcopal Church here in Philadelphia, the church I now go to. And so he helped to put the seed money up for that. He was one of the founders of that church. And so our history in the Black Episcopal Church goes way back. So my mom, when she grew up, she grew up going to the Black Episcopal Church, to St. Simon’s Church, which is really just a few blocks down from where I live now, in in South Philadelphia. and that was one of the five major black Episcopal churches here in Philadelphia.

My great-grandmother went to St. Simon’s and then other black Episcopal churches. but my mom actually stopped going to church in the 1960s because she was so disillusioned. It was her job in the 60s, with SNCC, the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee, to organize churches, to get churches in Philadelphia to host Stokely Carmichael when he came into town. He was the leader of SNCC at the time, Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee. And it was her job to get him pulpits to speak in. And nobody would have him speak after he spoke on black power. When he got up on the bed of that truck I think it’s Broad Street Park down in Mississippi, Money, Mississippi, near Money. And he said, We need to get us some black power. We need to be able to break any political machine that wants to come against us. White America took that as a existential threat. And the black church even in the United States at that time was not fully engaged in actually trying to stay out of trouble.

So when my mom was calling around to churches, there was only one church in all of Philadelphia that would take Stokely Carmichael and place him in the pulpit. And that I believe was the Church of the Ascension. And so my mom was disillusioned and she left the church. And really the Civil Rights Movement became her church. And so I didn’t grow up in church.

So when I found Jesus, I grew up asking the question of who is God and what is prayer and, Who’s this Jesus guy? I thought that Luke was the main man in the Bible because that is the name of the church that where I was I was baptized, Saint Luke. And we went there like every other Easter on a good year, you know. but obviously he’s not the main man. He did write one of the main texts, but he’s not the main man. And so it was in the context of a white evangelical parachurch ministry, Young Life.

And then subsequently a white evangelical little country church, Wesleyan Church in Cape May, New Jersey, where I began to go every week to the youth group and and they discipled me over the course of a year, where I began asking the question of who is Jesus? What is prayer? How do we touch God? How do we reach God? How do we communicate? And that was where I found Jesus. And I ended up walking down the aisle at a Sunday evening camp church service on August twenty first, nineteen eighty-three.

And very soon after that, was handed a tract that told me that I needed to vote for Reagan, even though I was only 14 years old, I couldn’t vote. Where am I who am I gonna vote for at 14 years old? So I got that tract and I took it home to my sister and I shared with her, you know, if Mondale wins, I think it was Mondale, We’re all gonna be rounded up into concentration camps, because that’s what the track said. Mondale is the Antichrist and he’s gonna round up all the children and put them in concentration camps. Well, you know, just come to think of it, there is a leader that we have right now that is rounding up children and putting them in concentration camps. Maybe we should think about the Antichrist in that direction. Hmm, somebody said, hm.

Rev. Ruth Perry (08:24)
Yep.

Lisa Sharon Harper (08:25)
So anyway, right. So I for a long period was deeply like yourself, deeply embedded in the white evangelical church. was in campus mostly parachurch ministries, but also the church. I mean, I went to a United Methodist church before quote before they said before they went liberal. The UMC went liberal.

And I was in Campus Crusade for Christ, back when it was called Campus Crusade for Christ in the 1980s. I was in Intervarsity in grad school and then went on staff with intervarsity in the 1990s. And so I was on staff with intervarsity for 10 years and deeply committed to that evangelical vision of the world.

I had no questions and no qualms, except that by that time I had begun to understand that this race thing is for real and we need to deal with it within the evangelical church. I had not done major reading on it. I’d only read, interestingly, evangelicals’ take on it, which obviously doesn’t give you the whole story. But it was the experience of pilgrimage in two thousand three that changed everything for me.

I had already been leading in racial reconciliation in Greater Los Angeles with Intervarsity, now on staff with them for several years. And we did a pilgrimage called The Pilgrimage for Reconciliation. And it retraced the Cherokee Trail of Tears for the first two weeks and the African experience in America for the last two weeks. We were on the road for a month. Most people don’t do that now. It was a million-dollar project, it was crazy.

And it was Intervarsity. Intervarsity did this. they made this investment because back in the 1990s they actually did get deeply invested in racial reconciliation, but they found that people were beginning to complain that it was pulling them away from the real work of Christianity, which is evangelism. And so they were trying to figure out what’s the relationship between the two. There is a relationship in scripture, and you see that most clearly in ironically, Luke.

Luke four, when Jesus shows up on the scene and it’s his inaugural address and he says, Why have I come? Here’s what I why I’ve come. And he reads from Isaiah sixty one, I have come to proclaim good news to the oppressed, to the captive, release for the captive. the blind will see and the year of the Lord’s favor, which is economic like an economic overturning. It’s where the high are brought low and those who are low are brought high. There’s an evening of the playing field economically in the Jubilee.

And so that was Jesus’s inaugural address. And so I was struck on this pilgrimage that this biblical concept of shalom incorporated that vision that we see in Luke. It held both. It held both the good news of Jesus and the reality that all things must be reconciled, not only back to God, but to each other. That the fall, the fall itself was not only a break between humanity and God, it was a break between all things. All things. And so God’s vision is not so small that he and she only imagines that only humans can be reconciled or should be reconciled to God. God’s vision is expansive. It is eternal. It is infinity. It is all things being reconciled to all things, including our relationship with God.

And and the relationship between the genders and the relationship between us and the rest of creation. No whales need to be saved. No manatee need to be saved. No elephants need to be rescued from zoos. No lions are emaciating in captivity. You hear what I’m saying? You hear what I’m saying?

Rev. Ruth Perry (12:00)
Yeah.

Lisa Sharon Harper (12:00)
And there’s no climate change because in that vision we are stewarding the wellness of all the relationships in creation and the wellness of the systems that govern us, all of us. They govern us in ways that bless all. There is no cursing on the first page of the Bible, which is where this is all grounded. And so that pilgrimage really challenged my simplistic, incredibly narrow view of the gospel that I inherited from Intervarsity and Campus Crusade, mostly Campus Crusade, that four spiritual laws, right? And it challenged it.

It blew it up. And that’s where for the next thirteen years I really wrestled in the scripture through this concept of shalom. And that’s where The Very Good Gospel was born. It was born out of that wrestling. And it was born out of me speaking on it for thirteen years in various ways. And then finally people just started in my last few years, they said, Where can I read this? Where can and I’d have to point them to like ten different books that I was getting it from.

And then finally I just heard God say, Write the book, it’s time for you to write the book. So I wrote it.

Rev. Ruth Perry (13:06)
I feel like the well, I don’t feel like the evangelical culture is individualistic and it does emphasize authority and give hierarchy to some and put others under other, you know.

Lisa Sharon Harper (13:19)
Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (13:20)
And so reading The Very Good Gospel was the first time that I had all of those hierarchies plateaued and recognized where is the resistance in evangelical culture to caring for the planet? Like there’s so many things in evangelical culture that are contrary when you really think about caring for God’s good creation, where we would prioritize capitalism over caring for our vulnerable and marginalized and poor.

People in my area, they had a community wide revival this every year, but this past year the speaker, was talking about false gospels and the very first one is social justice. What is the resistance in evangelical culture to breaking down these hierarchies and to living with the ethic of shalom and abundance for all. Where does that come from, Lisa?

Lisa Sharon Harper (14:06)
Okay, let’s talk.

Rev. Ruth Perry (14:07)
Yeah.

Lisa Sharon Harper (14:08)
Well, that’s a great question, and there is a very clear answer to that. Where does it come from? Randy Woodley, another mentor of mine and dear friend, theologian and practitioner, he traces it back to Plato and Aristotle. And and actually now that I’m reading a bunch of scholars for my own dis p PhD work, a lot of people are doing that. They’re tracing it back to Plato and Aristotle. they had this thing called dualism, right? So Platonic dualism. And in a dualistic worldview, things are either/or. They are light or dark, they are good or evil, they are either or. There’s not gradations, there’s not story. and there’s not nuance.

Rev. Ruth Perry (14:45)
Nuance, complexity, yeah.

Lisa Sharon Harper (14:48)
There’s not flesh, it’s not human, it’s actually a very mechanized, a mechanized worldview. And so the way that dualism has worked, and what Randy talks about is that once you have a worldview where things are either or, and that is your central worldview, and you then apply that to all kinds of things, including the body and the spirit, right?

So there’s either body or spirit. There’s not gradations and there’s not nuance and there’s there’s not and and then you add to that Aristotle’s hierarchies of human belonging, where Aristotle was actually Plato’s student and his accolate. And ten years after Plato wrote The Republic, Aristotle writes on politics, which is actually a compilation of his various lectures right and and writings. But politics he actually says explicitly if you have been conquered you have proven that you were created to be enslaved.

He literally says this. So he is the one who takes that dualistic worldview and puts it on steroids and then begins to bifurcate humanity. Because before that, they were saying, well, humans are above the animals and da-da-da. But now you have some humans are above other humans, right? So the civilized are above the barbarians, right? That was what Aristotle was thinking. That’s the worldview.

They didn’t have a white-black worldview yet. That was the enlightenment period. But then you get down to the enlightenment period and they’re taking that thinking forward, and that’s where you get the Doctrine of Discovery, is in that period, right? So the quote enlightenment period is also from the perspective of those who were conquered in that time, it was the age of conquest, not the age of discovery. It was the age of conquest. And there were ways that the church was complicit in that, the doctrine of discovery.

comes from the church. It actually is founded in the Catholic Church that declared that taking the logic of Aristotle that gave permission for explorers who went out all over the world and discovered land, right, that had uncivilized, unchristian people on it, okay, you can go and take that land and you can enslave the people according to Aristotle. Not according to scripture. According to Aristotle.

And now you get scripture interpreted through the framework of Aristotle. And then you have to ask, all right, what is the authority here? What is the authority that that Pope, Pope Nicholas V, right? What’s the authority he was resting on? Well, he was resting on the authority of Aristotle in order to interpret the Scripture in a certain way, but you can’t when you just look at the basic makeup of that scripture, you can’t do that. Genesis was written by recently enslaved people.

You’re not going to get a justification for slavery from recently enslaved people. Jesus comes from a lineage of serially enslaved people. At the time that Jesus was born, the year that Jesus was born, 500 people were crucified per day, when a centurion marched through the Northern Galilee territory and cru s basically squashed an attempted uprising against Caesar because they were being occupied. So this general crucified five hundred people per day. Five hundred.

So that was happening the year Jesus was born because people were trying to rise up against the oppression, the imperial opp impression against them. And that comes down, it trickles down. Our lead authority then becomes secular philosophy, not actually the scripture, and certainly not Jesus, who proclaimed in Luke 4, this is why I came. And so now we’re interpreting Jesus through the lens of Aristotle, through the lens of of of Romanized Paul.

Right, who actually goes through his own, we see him go through kind of a conversion over the course of his life in terms of who he says is in and who’s out, right? So why does the church so complicit in it? Because the church is all up in it for like the last six hundred years. The church has been all up in it.

Rev. Ruth Perry (18:56)
Yeah. And I hear a lot of fear mongering because now I’ve moved to the South and I live in the Bible Belt. I think it’s nine years this month. Eight years ago I came to a Red Letter Christian revival that you came and spoke at and you prayed for me because I was having a hard time adjusting to living in this area where there’s a lot of Christianity but a lot of blindness. It seems to be, what’s the word? Like intentional blindness.

Lisa Sharon Harper (19:24)
Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (19:24)
We’re in a community that has black neighbors. But how well do we know their story of being here in this town?

Lisa Sharon Harper (19:32)
Well, I think when you move it forward into the American context, particularly the American South. I did some research recently in the course of you know PhD studies on the history of the Southern Baptist Church. I’m no Southern Baptist Church scholar, but it doesn’t take much to do some basic history. And Reverend Richard Furman was the Southern Charleston Baptist Church, the first Baptist Church in Charleston, back in the 1840s. No, 1820s, 1821, 22, when Denmark VC attempted an insurrection. And it was going to be one of the largest rebellions in the South up to that point. There had actually, up to that point, been like a thousand possible attempted rebellions and rebellions across the South from the 1700s forward. This was not an unusual thing.

But Denmark VC was highly organized and he was going to have a major uprising. And it was squashed because someone, another black person actually ratted him out. And so he was beheaded along with the people who were rising up with him, and their heads were put on stakes all over South Carolina. And Richard Furman, the pastor, he went against the tide at the time. The tide at the time, in light of of DeMarc VC’s attempted insurrection, was to say, maybe we need to incrementally do away with this slavery thing. That was literally what people in South Carolina were saying. Maybe we shouldn’t have this anymore. Maybe we need to, you know, do away with this. Richard Furman, who had seven slaves of his own, he rose up and said, No, we need to entrench it further. We need to get more heinous with them.

Of course, he didn’t use that word, and he is actually one of the people who actually created the more heinous slave codes that came out as a result of that. And he gave the theological biblical exegesis or the argument support or apologetic for slavery. He gave that. And that ended up being the same apologetic that they then used during the Jim Crow era. So that one pastor gave america about about 150 years of evil. And it was only about 20 years that he convened the very first convention of the Baptist Church in the South, there in South Carolina.

And of course the Southern Baptist denomination was born about twenty years later, when the Northern Baptists were now saying, Well, wait a minute, we shouldn’t have this slavery thing and and no, you can’t send missionaries overseas if they hold slaves. And the Southern Baptists, armed with Furman’s theology said yes we can and so they broke off from the Baptists and actually in that period every single denomination in the country, every denomination experienced a split along the lines of slavery. Every denomination did and so when people say well they were just a person of their era no they weren’t they made a choice.

Because there were a good number of people who actually were not for it because of their faith. and the abolitionist movement, headed like spearheaded by the black church, was among them, right? So was leading that charge and and they understood clearly that you cannot you cannot enslave another human being you cannot subjugate the image of God on earth and then claim to follow God. You just can’t do that. So, how do we have what we have today? Richard Furman created this apologetic for slavery. And who did that benefit?

Who does that? It benefits the slaveholder. It benefits the slaveholder’s bank account. That’s what it benefited. They got to have free labor and justify it. And they didn’t only have free labor, they created slave farms. I mean they dug into, they got blood on their teeth for the depth of evil that they participated in. And they did it through the cover that they got from their theological apologetic for slavery. And with blood dripping from their mouths, they then went and preached the gospel in church. They never repented for that.

They went to war to protect it and lost. And then once the 13th, 14th, 15th Amendments were passed, they began to understand, you know, there’s consequences for what we’ve done. But then once the compromise of 1876-77 happens, what do they do? They bring back out Richard Furman’s theology.

And they used that as the theological cover for Jim Crow, which literally just continued the culture of the plantation, the white men walking into the homes of black men and and and black families and literally in front of the children and the husbands raping the wives at will. Stringing up and lynching nearly six thousand people over the course of ninety years, not even a hundred years. Six thousand people.

With impunity because it was the theology was so pervasive across the South that it permeated into the judicial system, into the policing, I mean police was actually created in order to entrench it. Right? So how do we have what we have right now? Like how is the church, especially in the South, willfully ignorant because they are doing what they’ve always done. They are spinning the story.

They have spun the story. They have omitted their evil. Why is it that most white people in Tulsa, Oklahoma have no idea that the Tulsa massacre ever happened? Because they were not taught it. They went silent on this day or several days when they went blood dripping from their mouths. And they never told their children that they did that. Now their children don’t know. And they’ve only picked up their politics and so they’re, you know, dedicated Republicans.

Rev. Ruth Perry (25:14)
And more upset about having to take down Confederate statues and the Confederate flag and more upset about transgender people. There’s so many inconsequential

Lisa Sharon Harper (25:22)
So stupid. Stupid stuff.

Rev. Ruth Perry (25:24)
things that they just stay angry about

Lisa Sharon Harper (25:26)
Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (25:26)
so that they don’t have to face the truth. But the truth sets us free.

Lisa Sharon Harper (25:29)
Exactly. It’s like, why? What is it? Like, why can’t people just say, We were so wrong. We were just so wrong. And that’s okay. We’re not lesser human beings because we were wrong. We were just wrong. And we did wrong. And now, you know, things need to change.

I mean this is I think this is literally the big question of the day. But here’s what I think about that. I think that the reason why it is so hard for white Christians to face slavery, like really face it, what it really was, and the reality of it is because repentance is a small death. You know, I talk about that in The Very Good Gospel. It’s a small form of death. It’s death to self. It’s death to the rightness of the self. it’s death to ego. It’s it’s death to the vision of dominance.

And if you believe, which I do believe this this is a core belief of people of European descent, and I say that specifically European descent because i it’s not held within indigenous peoples around the world. But a core belief of people of European descent is that to be well you must dominate. And I think that comes from Aristotle, Plato.

Dualistic thinking, either/or winner/loser thinking. You know, everybody’s trying to figure out we how do we dig our way out of this? I really do believe the answer is in our faith. It is repentance, it is confession of the truth. And by repentance what I mean is not just saying I’m sorry, but to literally give reparations, to repair what was broken, to repair the imbalance of power, to share power.

But I think that there is this fundamental belief in people of European descent that power cannot be shared, that either you will dominate or you will be dominated. Because that was the experience in Europe for millennia, right? Like they literally did go for millennia, multiple millennia, dominating each other. That was the thing. But there are people groups, there are regions of the world like where domination was not necessarily the thing. It wasn’t the goal. It wasn’t it was just to live and to live in harmony actually. Again, that’s something that I learned from my mentor and friend, Randy Woodley, that the ethic of indigenous people is actually harmony. It’s not winning. It’s harmony. And so we can all learn from that. And by indigenous I don’t just mean

Native American, I mean people who are indigenous to their land all over the world. I mean the Sami people up in northern Europe, and the Celtic people, and people of every African nation, the Aeroba, the Igbo. I mean, these are ethics that are held almost nearly universally within indigenous peoples. And it is when you break the relationship with land, when you leave your land in order to go out and dominate the other, that’s when that is broken and that’s what Europe did. That’s why you I think Europe has a unique responsibility for people of European descent have a unique responsibility for the ethic of domination that permeates our world today. Because y’all won. You won.

Rev. Ruth Perry (28:43)
Yeah.

Lisa Sharon Harper (28:44)
Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (28:44)
So good theology restores and reconciles and leads to abundance and healing and beautiful things? the fruit of poor theology is bad. And we can see the fruit. Today we see it in the concentration camps and the people being unlawfully detained and held and people dying in our streets, and we see it in USAID being cut and millions of people that are gonna die from that, and the Palestinians that have been genocided, and I mean there’s so many examples of ways that poor theology has led to death and destruction. And the

Lisa Sharon Harper (29:16)
Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (29:16)
fruit is there to see if you can be open to seeing it and experiencing that death of repentance. Can you make a biblical case for Shalom and this theological framework of abundance and no hierarchies and all of The Very Good Gospel. Yeah.

Lisa Sharon Harper (29:31)
Yeah. Talk about The Very Good Gospel. I mean, here’s the thing is that, you know, one of what I’ve learned about Shalom is that as I talked about earlier, we were created for overwhelmingly good relationship and relatedness between all things. That’s what we were created for. And that meant that there was blessing and no cursing. And I believe that the scripture in the first chapter of Genesis is through an epic poem explaining to us what we were created for and how we were created to be in relationship with each other.

And we get another account of creation in Genesis two. It’s much more intimate. It’s God’s hands and the muck, right? It’s, you know, literally God creating human from the earth. And and we see a much more detailed, it’s not epic poetry anymore now, it’s story. And in that story, we see that the climax of the story is actually the flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone, and the first creation of community on Earth, which is Ish and Isha, and that the human now has community and we are bound to each other.

And then you see the fall. And in the fall, what happens is that each of those relationships that God had just declared overwhelmingly good, a chapter and a verse ago in chapter one are all torn down. That’s the fall. They fall down. Those relationships fall down. And they fall one by one, starting with the relationship between us and ourselves, when we run and we hide from God, that’s shame entering into the world and and our relationship with God falls in that same moment, you know, when we’re hiding from God. And then our relationship between the genders just crashes to the ground when the man points at the woman and says, She made me do it, right? And now the woman is going to yearn for her husband, even though being with her husband is going to make her come to near death and and death in some cases in childbirth, right?

And even after having that child and suffering all of that pain, she will forget the pain and still go back to her husband and have to have pain all over again. This is the fall. This is the natural consequence of when we come out from under the covering of God. When we come out from under the call to steward the overwhelming wellness of all the relationships on earth. And how did we do that? We didn’t listen to God.

God said, don’t eat of the fruit of this tree of the knowledge of good and evil. And I don’t necessarily think that this is something that happened in history. When I now read the scholars, they actually believe that there’s lots of different understandings of what that means and what were they trying to communicate? But one thing I do know is they were trying to communicate truth.

So it may not be fact the way we understand fact and history today. History didn’t exist back then. History is again an Enlightenment era discipline, the way we understand it today, the recording of things that happened as they happened, through you know a particular lens. But back then they were not trying to record what happened, they were trying to share truth.

That was the goal of these texts and the moment of telling the stories and songs and the poems. And so the question I’m asking then is what is the truth that is being communicated through that Genesis 2 and Genesis 3 account? Well, the truth that is communicated is that God is God and we are not. That we are created in relationship with God and each other and the earth.

And that that relationship is broken when we grab at our own peace at the expense of the others. When God said, don’t eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, that knowledge was not just head knowledge. It’s literally kinetic in the body knowledge, experiential knowledge. So then I’m asking, how are they experiencing evil? How are they experiencing good and evil? Well, they’re experiencing it by not trusting God. First and foremost.

When God said, Don’t eat of the tree, that that command in itself gave them an opportunity to trust God and not eat of the tree or not trust God and eat of the tree. They chose not to trust God, and that broke relationship with God. And you can’t have shalom without God.

Because God is the author of Shalom. So after that, the natural consequence when we don’t trust God and God’s way to peace is that we lose peace. ‘Cause all that we can get for ourselves is broken peace because we are not God. So that’s when we see all of those relationships fall, and it’s like a snowball that grows like a becomes an avalanche, right? And it starts with that shame entering the world, but it ends with colonization and imperialism just fourteen chapters later.

Right, so you go from shame entering the world in chapter three to the relationship between humanity and creation and men and women and the agenders breaks and and then death enters the world and we’re driven from the garden and then the relationship between families breaks because of you. By the way, they are named Adornment and Shadow. So right there and it’s amazing, right? In Genesis 4, this is like what page 4

Rev. Ruth Perry (34:28)
man. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

Lisa Sharon Harper (34:32)
of the Bible, patriarchy enters the world. And it’s a break. It’s so far from naked and unashamed and clinging to one another. Now you have adornment and shadow.

on the fourth page of the Bible. And that is not God’s prescription for goodness. That is the consequence of grabbing peace in our own way. And then you see the Tower of Babel and the confusion of languages, which leads to ethnic enmity. And just a couple of chapters later leads to colonization. One king trying to exact his will over several smaller kings. And that’s where you get the first mention of the word war.

First mention of war. You know, fourteen chapters after Tov Meod, very good. So Shalom, the biblical concept of Shalom is grounded in that first chapter and second chapter of Genesis, where we see what overwhelmingly good related in relationship looks like. And it is restored to us when we follow God and God’s way. It’s the ethic, it’s how we live in the world together. It’s whether we are living our lives in ways that mend the broken relationships rather than capitalizing on them.

Rev. Ruth Perry (35:45)
It’s so powerful. I’m just thinking about the journey you went on as you wrote Fortune and

Lisa Sharon Harper (35:47)
Fortunate. Yeah. Yep.

Rev. Ruth Perry (35:51)
looked into your family’s history here in America and in the South, and all the ways that the world was designed and the systems were constructed to keep those relationships broken and to keep people under oppression. What was the spiritual and emotional impact of that journey for you.

Lisa Sharon Harper (36:10)
My goodness. I have to tell you, it was incredibly hard to write that book. I mean, it was incredibly hard for multiple reasons. Number one, it took thirty years of research. and I did not start the research thinking I was gonna write a book. I was really started the research as a black woman just trying to figure out who am I. I didn’t know the names of my great grandparents, except for one. I knew the name of one great grandparent and met her, like knew her as a as a child. but didn’t know anything beyond that.

So started the research with my mom. My mom actually is the one who went to the National Archives and was searching for this person and that person. And then in the early 2000s, I started to join her in that effort and started asking questions in the early 90s, but really joined her as an as a genealogist for our family in the in the early 2000s. And I was just boom, like I was overtaken by, wow, this is incredible. You know, a Gen Xer, I am the first generation to be able to know where we come from as African Americans because of DNA. Like that is a science that my mom did not have, my grandmother did not have. They did not know that we come from the Yoruba people and the house of people of Nigeria. When you trace it back through my matrilineal line, my mom’s mom’s mom, going back a thousand years, that’s where we were. We were with The House of People in northern Nigeria. We were with the Yoruba people in southwestern Nigeria.

Like when I first did my DNA and and it came back, obviously the thing that’s a little bit ironic about the whole DNA thing is that that technology is advancing all the time. It’s getting better and better and better and crisper and crisper. And so, the DNA story that shows up in our little pie charts when you when you send away for it and it comes back, it it changes. It gets more and more detailed and and even corrected over time. But I’ll never forget the first day that I got mine. I got it and I wept because it was clear to me in my body.

In fact, I don’t think it was only me that was weeping. I think it was all the ancestors who make up me, who literally, literally are me. My DNA is their DNA. I think they wept with me in that moment because it was a deep, deep weeping, because it was the first time that we knew where we were from. There is a healing work that comes when you are able to be grounded on land, know what land you are from. Because in that you don’t only know the land, you know the story, you know part of your people’s story. So I don’t know the ancestors’ names that came over. I haven’t d deep enough research like, you know, Alex Haley to go back and find my Kunta Kente.

But I do know Hannah Reynolds is the farthest back I can go on my mom’s, mom’s, mom’s matrilineal line. And so her ancestors stretch back to the Yoruba and Hausa people. I do know what happened to Nigerians. And to the Senegalese, which are also mixed up in my in my DNA, that Sambo Game, Fortune’s father, was from Senegal and it shows in a DNA. There are several people in our line that were Senegalese.

So that’s a story. That’s actually a traceable story. I can learn what happened to the Senegalese. I can learn, what ships they were brought over on. We actually know that now.

And so without knowing their names and their micro stories, I can know the macro story of what happened to my people. And that grounds me. That can ground me. Because until then, and let me just say this is really important, until I had that story, my experience of being a black person in America is very similar, interestingly, in this way to being a white person. That my

value, my purpose is only defined then by my blackness or your whiteness. And whiteness and blackness were created in order to define who has power and who doesn’t. Who has the power to own land and who doesn’t? Who has the power? Who has the right not to be enslaved and who doesn’t?

Who has the right to vote and who doesn’t? Like who has the ability to exercise agency in the world and who doesn’t? And theologically then speaking, who is human and who isn’t? Because what it means to be human is to exercise agency. To exercise dominion in the world. That’s agency. And so as a black woman who wasn’t able to trace my family.

I then needed to prove my worth. I needed to prove my worth based on what I could produce. Because that was how black worth was delineated in a black-white construct. In the antebellum South and in the Jim Crow era, we became as valuable as we could produce. You could produce less, you are less valuable. Literally, you take less money in the trade.

And so to be a valuable black person, I needed to be able produce my bales of cotton per se, right? And for people of European descent, being named white meant that you were placed automatically by virtue of the color of your skin and your ancestry in Europe. Particularly northern Europe.

That you were dubbed of the noble class. In other words, you got the opportunity to become a member of the noble class based on how much money you could gather, how much money you could accumulate. And the way to do that here was by owning enslaved people, right? That was the explicit, like explicit understanding. And so.

The question of whether or not you are a worthy white person. Whether you’re living into your whiteness, living up to your whiteness, or are you a failure as a white person? You know? I think a lot of the people who were out there on the mall on January 6th in 2021 are people who have failed at whiteness.

Right? They are not the ruling class. And they resent that. And they are looking at the other to say, you’re the reason why I’m not the ruling class. I need to subjugate you so that I can rise. Because that’s the logic of domination that permeated Europe. And so when I was writing Fortune, it was hard to write because one, it’s hard to actually have access to these ancient histories, these ancient in our terms in America, hundreds of years, especially for black people. And so I had to find ways to get around that by legitimately studying the meta histories in order to understand at least the circumstances within which my ancestors lived. But it also was really hard the closer I got to my generations because the facts are there and you actually know what happened. And now I as a writer, in order to communicate them clearly to you, I almost have to relive them.

And so it was incredibly painful. It was just an incredibly painful time. I’ll never forget. I’ll never forget. And actually this is ironic ’cause it’s the first chapter. It’s not a latter chapter. And the first chapter as I was researching for it. I’ll never forget the moment when I was doing the research on Fortune and Sarah and their families and how Fortune had several daughters that were also indentured.

And so did Sarah. One of her daughters, she was indentured, and she had children who were also indentured. And it’s like, what’s there happening? Because the law didn’t say that that indentured servitude was supposed to be generational like that. The law was very specific. You’re indentured if you are a servant and you have sex outside of marriage with somebody and you have a child in your indenture. Then you are indentured for a further three to seven years and your children are indentured for XYZ time. And this shifted over the first maybe first decade of these laws being passed around 1700. But it eventually shook out to say that if the father was white then your child would be indentured for twenty one years. And if the father was black, like if if a servant got it on with a a black enslaved man, then her children would be indentured for thirty one years, right? And I started doing the math on

Fortune’s children and how long they were indentured, and then Sarah’s children and how long they were indentured, because they actually do turn up free eventually, right? And it’s like twenty-one years. Twenty one. Which meant they were being raped regularly by their indenturers in order to gain free labor for another twenty one years for the family.

So they were generationally raping and impregnating each generation. And I when I saw that, because I was like, why is Sarah surrounded by women and there are no men in her picture? Like, why is there never a husband? And she was taken to court to be indentured, and her children were also taken to court in each generation to be indentured. And

why are there never any men? Is she in a brothel? Like I really was like, what’s going on here? And then I just started really no, no, no, she’s not in a brothel. She is in like really distinguished homes. Like the Fuchs family on the eastern shore of Maryland. They were gentry class. Like they were literally with William the Conqueror back at the time ten sixty-six, when he came they were at his right hand at that point.

They were indenturing Sarah. Right? Then she has children and they are indentured for twenty one years.

And the DNA. I traced it like when you could do this, you can’t do this now. They actually stopped this right around the time I was doing my research. They connected us DNA wise to the Fuchs family. Like I had Fuchs DNA in me. And that’s when I realized, my God. Well now they capped it. You can only go back five generations now. Right. They won’t let you see beyond five generations of your DNA. Who does that benefit?

Who does that benefit? So it was emotionally difficult to do the research. But I just felt and knew this is necessary because you have to know the truth to tell the truth. You’ve gotta seek the truth to know the truth. So I had to keep going. And I’m glad I did. And what I found in that research was that the remedy

Is right there in the center of our faith. It is the resurrection, it is the cross, it is Jesus who gives us the power to reverse the fall. Jesus conquered death. Jesus began to reverse the relationships between men and women. And we see that even in Paul’s epistles, who in some cases is saying, Don’t let women speak, but actually, in most cases, he is

lifting up and championing the women who are in the ministry, naming them first between their husbands and it like the women were the leaders, actually. you know, he names Junia, who is an apostle, he names her as an apostle, a woman. What does that mean? It means that she was leading the church an entire city. Like that’s that is a reversal of Lamak with his two wives.

Right? We see Paul again, pushed by his faith in this Jesus, this this brown colonized man who beat death, he then writes to an enslaver telling him to free his slave because his slave Philemon is now equal.

He says in Galatians that if you have been baptized in Christ, there is no longer slave or free, male or female, Jew or Greek. In other words, your lens that empire has given you, really, the lens of dualism, the lens of either or, the lens of domination, it gets washed in the water of baptism. It gets washed away. And all you you see when you come up is the image of God, the call of each and every person to exercise stewardship of the world, to be able to exercise agency in the world. And that means that slavery must go. That means that subjugation must end. That means there is no longer Jew or Greek. There is no longer slave or free. There is no longer male or female. And that doesn’t mean that these people don’t exist. It means that the logics of domination do not exist within the kingdom of God. So you cannot be a citizen in the kingdom of God and operate according to the logics of domination.

You just can’t.

Rev. Ruth Perry (48:02)
And our hope is that Jesus is going to return and we’re gonna live in a new creation where all of the divisions have been healed and everything that the fall broke is going to be restored. And so we can get on board now in that ministry

Lisa Sharon Harper (48:15)
Come on.

Rev. Ruth Perry (48:16)
of reconciliation. Why wait? You know, this is what we look forward to. We don’t want to be at enmity with our neighbors. We want to love them and want for them what God wants for them.

Lisa Sharon Harper (48:24)
And let me just say, we don’t want to be at enmity with God.

Rev. Ruth Perry (48:27)
No.

Lisa Sharon Harper (48:27)
You don’t want to be at war with God. Because when you participate in the subjugation of the image of God on earth, you are actually waging war against the kingdom of God on earth. Because the image of the king in ancient times was a marker of where the king rules. And the image of God is in each of us.

So when you subjugate another human being, you are subjugating the image of God. I think that’s how God sees it. I think God understands that you are waging war against God. So what is it going to take then for us to lay down our arms against God? I think it’s gonna take repentance. It’s gonna take baptism.

Rev. Ruth Perry (49:05)
I think that’s where we need to end today. I want people to sit with that or reflect on that. I want people to read Fortune and The Very Good Gospel

Lisa Sharon Harper (49:10)
Yeah.

Rev. Ruth Perry (49:14)
and to follow you. Where’s the best way to follow you, Lisa?

Lisa Sharon Harper (49:17)
The best way to follow is on Substack.

Rev. Ruth Perry (49:19)
Okay.

Lisa Sharon Harper (49:20)
Now Substack will get you linked to everything else, right? So my Instagram page is also a great place to be. And also of course Facebook, all the socials, LinkedIn, all the rest. But Substack is where you’re gonna find my writing. It’s where you’re gonna find out about things that are happening and offers and so Substack at Lisa Sharon Harper and you’ll find everything you need there.

Rev. Ruth Perry (49:39)
Thank you so much for coming on my podcast and sharing such an important and powerful message today. God bless.

Lisa Sharon Harper (49:45)
God bless you. Thank you.


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026 I Lydia Grace Kaiser: What if We Misread the Bible on Women?

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Buy your copy of Bible Truth About Women and find more from Kaiser at lydiakaiser.com

In this latest episode of The Beautiful Kingdom Builders Podcast, author Lydia Grace Kaiser shares her journey from traditional complementarian views to a more egalitarian understanding of women in scripture. She discusses biblical translation, cultural context, and how Jesus elevated women, encouraging listeners to explore scripture deeply and embrace their calling. Be free!

You can find more about Lydia Grace Kaiser on her website, where there are links to her social media accounts as well. And I highly recommend buying Kaiser’s book and reading it for yourself. It is a treasure trove of insight on Scripture’s message to women.

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TRANSCRIPT:

Ruth Perry (00:17)
My guest today is Lydia Grace Kaiser. She wrote a really incredible book titled Bible Truth About Women, What They Don’t Tell You. And Lydia has a wonderful blog, lydiakaiser.com, that I highly recommend. Thank you so much for being here today, Lydia.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (00:34)
Thanks for having me, Ruth.

Ruth Perry (00:35)
Before we talk about your book, can we just go back and hear more about you and where you come from and especially about your faith journey, where it started to where you are now?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (00:45)
Okay, well, right now I’m fifty-nine years old. I have three adult children. I used to be able to say they’re all in their twenties, but the oldest one just turned 30. And I homeschooled my kids all the way through high school. And so that’s a big part of my education was that I, you know, got the education, the classical education that I never got before by teaching them. So it was a lot of work, but I’m grateful for it.

We have three grandboys. We live in rural Missouri with a little bit of acreage and chickens and bees. My education is I graduated from Pensacola Christian College in 1988. And I’ve been in ministry for four decades, mostly working with parachurch organizations because of the restrictions in church. I have done a lot of teaching, you know, training volunteers.

Administration, marketing, all of the admin stuff too, you know. And I have studied and taught the Bible all of my life, but in my 50s I became interested in this topic and realized that I did not have the research skills to study it adequately. I would read from this person, they would say this, and that person says that, and I’m like, I don’t know who’s right. You know, they say, well.

This Greek word or that Hebrew word, and how do I check that? You know, so I enrolled in seminary in my 50s. I

Ruth Perry (02:08)
That’s spectacular.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (02:09)
Yeah, well, I finally had the freedom to learn what I wanted to learn instead of worrying about what

I needed to teach everybody else around me, you know. So I just encourage people that it’s never too late. but my first class was hermeneutics. I went to Bethel Seminary in St. Paul, Minnesota.

Not to be confused with the other three Bethels, I think. But yeah, my first class was hermeneutics, and it was just mind blowing. My professor was a internationally renowned translator, which was just fantastic. But I was able to learn all of the challenges involved with translation. You know, all my life I had just, I had believed

That there could be a literal unquote word-for-word translation. And translators would say, well, I’m just giving you what the text says. I’m not interpreting. Oh yes, they are. You cannot translate without interpreting. I learned how to look up the Hebrew and Greek words for myself and check what people are saying and check different types of commentaries

with differing views and see how well they supported what they were saying. And that also helped me decide which theologian scholars I trust when I’m doing a deep dive into something, how to check their background and see really how much study they have in that particular topic. For example, Marg Mosco is my most cited scholar in my book.

Let me spell her name, M-O-W-C-Z-K-O, for those who want to look her up. But she’s not just a great translator, but someone who’s put in thousands of hours on these particular passages and issues, you know, comparing the passages and researching original documents. So she’s able to articulate the reasons for her conclusion that’s on a whole different level than, say, someone who’s also a great scholar, but they spend 99.2

Nine percent of their time on other topics or issues, you know? So yeah, people say, Well, I follow so-and-so, or I follow so-and-so. And I’m like, Great, I’m sure they’re a good scholar, but have they studied this topic like this? You know? So yeah, there is a little about

Ruth Perry (04:21)
Exactly.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (04:22)
me and my education.

Ruth Perry (04:24)
So just responding to that introduction, first of all, I’m a homeschool mom as well. I homeschooled three children. I had two boys and a girl.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (04:31)
Wow. Same here. Yeah.

Ruth Perry (04:33)
Were they two boys oldest and then a girl like me? Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (04:36)
No, the girl was in the middle. Yeah.

Ruth Perry (04:39)
Well, my oldest, he ended up going to public middle school. He didn’t love homeschooling. And so that worked out well for him. And then my next two homeschool through middle school, but then they went to high school because I was really burnt out by the time. It did so much work.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (04:55)
yeah, it’s a slog. It it really is a slog.

Ruth Perry (04:58)
So I commend you for that. How are they doing now?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (05:02)
Well, they’re all entrepreneurs. None of them felt the need to go to college, which made me feel like a failure because they didn’t just love education so much. But it turned out they just know how to teach themselves whatever they need to learn, and they’ve all

Ruth Perry (05:14)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (05:15)
been very successful in their chosen careers. I mean, some careers need advanced education and others don’t. And so, I guess we dodge three bullets without having to help out with, you know, higher education, but they’re all doing very well in their chosen fields. And, they’re all so different. The kids are different, you know, and it’s been fun

Ruth Perry (05:34)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (05:34)
to watch them blossom in their own ways.

Ruth Perry (05:36)
Secondly, you said you went to Pensacola. It’s Baptist, right?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (05:40)
No, but it’s Baptistic, very Baptistic. You could probably say it leans Reformed,

Ruth Perry (05:43)
Mm-hmm. And Bethel is too,

Lydia Grace Kaiser (05:47)
Bethel is from a old Swedish Baptist heritage, yes. The difference is they are a little broader. I don’t wanna speak for them. I wouldn’t say they leaned reformed, but you know, they’re in the same town as Bethlehem. Which was Pipers and and

Ruth Perry (06:03)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (06:04)
they’re not the same. I’ll just say that.

Ruth Perry (06:06)
Okay. That yeah, I was wondering if there was a relationship there.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (06:09)
So yeah, they’re different. They are also egalitarian. They have female professors and it was so refreshing to just engage with male professors that treated me so respectfully, honestly, and male students as well. It was a different experience than what I have felt in the past.

Ruth Perry (06:29)
So did you grow up believing that there were restrictions on w what roles and what things women could do in the church and the home?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (06:38)
Absolutely. And it was pretty much pounded into my my brain, you know, all these particular verses like Sarah called her Abraham Lord, and women need to be silent, and women are not to have any authority or teach. And so the practical outcome of that is that

All females really we knew not to give our opinion if it differed from the males in our presence. Especially my father who was a Baptist pastor, if any female gave her opinion in his presence, he would, say things about how she needed to shut her sassy mouth. I mean, he just really did not like to hear from women.

Ruth Perry (07:13)
So you’ve been on a journey in that regard too then changing your views.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (07:16)
Right, right. Well, and I have a high regard for scripture and it appears that there are some passages that do restrict women and so I’m just like, well, can’t argue with the Bible, you know, you just gotta use the plain reading of the word and so I thought that that’s what it said for the longest time, even though I looked around me and saw that it didn’t really work. I saw that men basically lost their partners, with this teaching and it’s harmful for men as well as women. They lose their partner and just everything is put on them. And the women are also taught, well, something doesn’t go right, it’s all his fault, because it ultimately, it’s on his shoulders. And so the women can just play along with that and like, well, it’s his fault, you know.

And so that’s is hard on him. He’s more likely to feel defensive or or just entitled. You know, he can go one way or the other and just become extreme in those feelings. And you know, no no person should feel like it’s all on them sink or swim. It should be we’re in this together, we’ll make these decisions together. And if it doesn’t go well, it’s on both of us, you know, and we

Ruth Perry (08:26)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (08:27)
We celebrate together and we mourn together. The practicalities of so called complementarian teaching are are just really devastating even for relationships.

Ruth Perry (08:38)
I also was a Baptist minister’s daughter and very

Lydia Grace Kaiser (08:42)
really?

Ruth Perry (08:43)
like grew up I wanna say like twenty something years I read the Bible through that patriarchal complementarian lens, never questioned it, it just made perfect sense and I didn’t recognize that I was culturally conditioned to accept it as making sense because that was the system I grew up in. Those were the gender norms and the cultural norms that I was used to. And so it was definitely a lens. Can you tell me about some of the things that started to create cognitive dissonance for you about complementarianism?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (09:15)
Sure. But before I forget, you’re talking about the cultural lens. I don’t know if you’re on Substack.

Ruth Perry (09:21)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (09:21)
Nick O’Brien just posted something about the culture and how the culture is very patriarchal. And so when these complimentarians say that we’re just giving into the culture, it’s not at all true. And he goes through every aspect of the culture and you know gives.

Hard stats. I mean, it’s just, it’s pretty amazing.

Ruth Perry (09:42)
I’ll look that up.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (09:43)
Yeah. Okay, so how did I first start getting feeling the dissonance? So I stumbled across a explanation for First Corinthians 14, 34 and 35, where you know someone just said something about how if this

Can be if if this is supposed to be taken at face value that women are to be silent in the church, well then it contradicts other scripture, like in this very same book, 1 Corinthians 11, where it says, when women are speaking and praying and prophesying in the church gathering, they should have their head covered. And I realized I have always been in circles it worried about whether we should have our heads covered, more so than the fact that.

Paul is nonchalantly mentioning that women are speaking and leading really in prayer and prophesying. And so, yeah, there, I had always been taught that the Bible doesn’t contradict itself. And I realized that every other topic out there, you know, biblical topic, if we see an apparent contradiction, we work really hard to resolve that.

You know, we look at all the possibilities, we do word studies, we have these long explanations for in order to reconcile that. But I’ve never seen that done with these passages about women. And the more I looked, I you know, I thought, well, if we’ve done that with that passage, what about the other passages? Have have we have we missed things or or failed to reconcile contradictions with those, but so I began looking more closely. I took my rose colored glasses off. Actually they weren’t rose colored, but I took those lenses off that you were talking about and just started reading a lot more critically and thought, there’s some issues here. I need to learn more. And then I started reading more broadly and that’s when I was like, I don’t know who to believe.

So there I went to seminary.

Ruth Perry (11:35)
Well the subtitle of your book is What They Don’t Tell You. What

Lydia Grace Kaiser (11:38)
Mm.

Ruth Perry (11:39)
are some of the biggest things that you believe Christians have not been told about women in scripture?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (11:44)
Okay, well, what I do with the book is I compiled 20 categories of misleading tactics used by translators and interpreters, you know, some by translators and more by interpreters. And I just number them in the introduction of the book, one through twenty. And then I go through all of the passages and explain which of those misleading tactics has been used with that passage. And then I summarize in a little sidebar. So if someone is just like, I’m not a book reader, well just flip through and read the sidebars and you’ll get the gist. But yeah, there’s 124 sidebars or examples. And sadly it’s it’s not exhaustive. But did I answer your question?

Ruth Perry (12:26)
That was helpful, but I was asking about the subtitle, what they don’t tell you. Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (12:30)
what they don’t tell you. Yeah. So like what I was explaining about challenges to translation, and the whole idea of plain reading, what I thought was that I could read my English Bible and those English words were, just as straight from heaven and straight from God as if those English translators were filled with the Spirit and led by the Spirit, just the same as the original authors. And yet I have also been told all my life that the Bible is inerrant in the original languages. And finally I thought, I haven’t been living that way. I have not been reading my English Bible as if it’s not completely inerrant.

I’ve been putting far too much weight on every one of those English words, every one of them. And so, what they don’t tell you is translators make a lot of decisions. For example, take a verse that talks about the word head. Ephesians 1:22 through 23. And he put all things under his feet and gave him as head over, you hear that preposition, over all things to the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills all in all. So the translator needs to put a preposition in there. And it’s up to them to decide which preposition to use. And they could use the word of, because there’s not a preposition, there’s not any indication of superiority or overness in the Greek there. But they, because of their ideology, they choose the word over. And now listen to how it sounds if they had chosen the word of. And he put all things under his feet and gave him as head of all things to the church, which is his body, the fullness.

Okay, here’s another thing that they don’t tell you is that some of these words that we take as a metaphor, such as head is a CEO or the boss, they didn’t have that same metaphor back then, the first century. It was coming in as a military term, but in ordinary usage, not so much, and especially prior to Paul’s writings, the idea of head, they thought that the head provided everything that the body needs. It was the source of provision. they even one of the philosophers even taught that the semen comes from the head, everything comes from the head.

So when you realize, okay, Paul wrote this to that audience, this is their understanding, this is what they would have understood when they read these words. then you see that this particular verse, and also in Ephesians 4, he says, We are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint, with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.

Do you see the source of provision that is being described? So this is how Paul uses the word. And then elsewhere, there’s a couple verses where it indicates more of he is the head of the whole universe, that sort of thing. But when he’s talking about the church, there’s an entirely different nuance there. And so understanding that the church doesn’t tell you that there are these nuances to translation and that these verses have other ways of being understood. So I’ll just leave it at that, although I could go on all day about even just this particular thing with with the head, you know.

Ruth Perry (15:55)
Yeah, it’s so true. there’s just a so much conditioning when you grow up in these complementarian churches that the people who aren’t coming to the same conclusions as you about the interpretation of the scriptures are playing fast and loose with scripture or they’re twisting

Lydia Grace Kaiser (16:10)
Well

Ruth Perry (16:11)
or cherry picking and all these things. But then you look

Lydia Grace Kaiser (16:13)
Yeah.

Ruth Perry (16:14)
at it deeply and you realize, well, wait a second. It’s not

Lydia Grace Kaiser (16:18)
And you know,

Ruth Perry (16:19)
the egalitarians doing that.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (16:20)
Yeah, and I hate to even use their word complimentarian because it’s such a misnomer. It’s one way complimenting is what’s happening. And they coined that word in the late 80s. Like I said, I graduated from college in eighty-eight. So as a young person, as I was just learning my deeper theology and hearing some of these words, I didn’t realize they were new words and that I was learning new teaching. This was not around before.

So really hierarchicalists are what they are, or the hierarchy, the hierarchical teaching is a more accurate term for what they are putting out there. And then as far as egalitarian, they’ve used that so pejoratively and then there are some egalitarians who are more extreme where their thinking is more androgynous, like there isn’t a difference between man and and woman, which of course I don’t believe. And so I really like the term mutualist, because what I’m looking for is mutual love and respect. You know, that that’s more of a partnership term.

I think believe that’s what God intended in Genesis, when he made Eve out of Adam’s body so that they would be of one flesh, one material, and then together gave them dominion over the earth. And then in First Corinthians 11, Paul says, yes, woman came from man, but then man comes from woman. And so, you know, everything comes from God. So stop making a big deal out of the fact that Eve came from Adam. Every other man has come from woman ever since, you know. So it was God’s way of showing that we’re equal and yet people have twisted that and just focused on one aspect of it.

Ruth Perry (17:59)
Yeah, absolutely. Can you tell us about the context of the Greco Roman culture and the Jewish culture and how they viewed women and the purity codes that were all enacted at the time that Jesus lived and then how Jesus countered those beliefs in his ministry and his treatment of women?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (18:19)
Sure. Now I go into the some in my book because it’s hard to say the culture was all like this. It was a very varied culture. It had the Greeks, even though we call it the Greco-Roman, the Greeks and the Romans were different in ways. You got your Jewish influence. And then even within the Jewish system, you have, the Sadducees and the Pharisees and the Zealots and the folks who followed Herod, the Hellenists. But there’s there’s just so many aspects of culture that you really can’t say, well, it was all like X.

So for example, I think it’s very interesting that Jesus came when he did, because in the Jewish culture, women were more oppressed, I think, than any time in history before that. You look at all the things that women were doing in the Old Testament, Deborah being both a judge and a prophet, Huldah being consulted by King Josiah. Even though there’s some other very famous prophets who were living at the time, she was his first pick. Did the church ever tell you that, by the way? No, you never heard that in church.

Ruth Perry (19:25)
No.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (19:27)
Yeah, kind of kicked Jeremiah and some others to the curb there to call on Huldah. So Jesus, when he came, when he started his ministry, he was baptized, you know, by John. And then he went out into the wilderness. And then he came back. And the very first thing he did was go to the synagogue. And they handed him the scroll of Isaiah. He turned to Isaiah 61 and he read that passage about the Spirit of the Lord has anointed me, and I’m come to give sight to the blind and freedom to the prisoner and the captives and declare the day of the Lord. And then he rolled it up and said, This day, this is fulfilled in your hearing.

So he kind of gave his manifesto for his ministry, for the start of his ministry. And from then on, he began healing people and treating women who were basically oppressed. I mean, the verse says that he’s bringing good news to the oppressed, he elevates women at every turn. And the Pharisees had come up with something like well, hundreds of extra laws. I think there might have been six hundred laws in the Torah, and they came up with an extra 400 or and a hundred of them restricted women in very specific ways, which really restricted them in society and their movement and their ability to economically and all those things. And so it’s interesting to me that he came at a time when women were more oppressed than at any other time.

But at the same time before the coming of Jesus, you had the new Roman women who were basically they were kind of doing the ancient bra burning type marches, you know. Feminism is very old. But Rome had tried to restrict women and what they could wear and what they could do, and so they wouldn’t have it. And so they marched and threw off everything and they were dressing very extravagantly. This is why in first Timothy it says, you know.

Dress modestly. They weren’t talking about not showing too much skin. They were talking about, not flaunting your wealth, basically. So then this was also affecting the Greek women. For example, in Ephesus, they had the Diana, or also, so there’s a Roman name and there’s a Greek name. So there’s Artemis and Diana are the same. And so you have women a lot more involved in civic affairs. Now, the men still dominated. We want to be clear about that. But the women were moving about much more freely. So you have women like Lydia and Phoebe, who were able to travel and you know, do commerce. I’m sure they had an entourage for safety and that sort of thing, but they were wealthy and in fact, these old Egyptian parchments show that in the first century around 25% of Greco-Roman households were headed by women.

Ruth Perry (22:14)
wow.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (22:15)
So you have a lot of changing power dynamics, but I think that the Jewish women were especially oppressed, and it was the religious people who were oppressing them. And I I feel like the same thing is happening today. We have this resurgence. The Baptists had the conservative resurgence. you have the the new

Ruth Perry (22:35)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (22:36)
Calvinists that are resurging that are very much about restricting women. And so I just wonder if we’re seeing history repeat itself here and if God is not intervening by exposing all of the corruption in today’s church and also helping us women with the with the new tools that we have, with the internet and the ability to call out sin and expose it on a national level. And not let these guys continue to just, go to another town and take another pulpit and, abuse a whole nother congregation of people. So I find all that very interesting. did I answer your question?

Ruth Perry (23:18)
Yeah, so that is the context and then how did Jesus treat women?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (23:23)
Okay, so I have a whole section of my book, part three, is all about the example of Jesus. And the point that I want to make is that we so often, at least in my background, they took the epistles in what they thought were clear passages and put that back on Jesus and held that as the highest standard. Whereas we need to remember that the authors of the epistles were followers of Jesus, you know, not the other way around. And so we really need to start with Jesus. What did he say? What did he do?

And it’s interesting, for example, Mark 15, names women who follow Jesus into Galilee and minister to him, and it references quote, Many other women who would come up with him to Jerusalem. And then of course you have Luke 8, 1 through 3 names women who traveled all the time with Jesus. And then also says, quote, many other unquote women. Now the really interesting thing in Mark 15 is that this word for for the women who follow him is Akalitheo, which is the language of discipleship.

So that is shocking in its first century Jewish context. And it confirms that unlike other rabbis, Jesus elevated women to the position of disciple. They were considered just as much a disciple as the Twelve or anyone else who was in the entourage. And then, of course, we have the story of Mary sitting at Jesus’ feet, and Jesus will not let that be taken from her.

So I’m sure that just threw the door open, and as many women as as could t took that posture. And we also want to remember that the first century posture there of someone who quote, sat at someone’s feet, was not just doing it to sit there in adoration. This is the picture I always had, you know, the woman

Ruth Perry (25:18)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (25:19)
was just sitting there, like, you know, hands folded, looking adoringly at Jesus. No. The the context here is that people would follow the master, the rabbi, in order to then turn around and have followers themselves. Now, of course, with Jesus, the followers should not think that they become greater, a greater teacher, you know, like you’ve got Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle, and they each tried to, perhaps eclipse the other. But this is a long tradition of choosing a rabbi or a master and following them and then continuing to teach. And, we totally missed that. I mean, again, have you ever heard that in church?

Ruth Perry (26:01)
No. No.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (26:03)
so yeah, we could go into all the stories where Jesus gave special attention to women touched them, commended them like the woman with the issue of blood; shouldn’t have even been out of her house while menstruating according to the Pharisaical laws, let alone touching a man’s clothing, you know. And yet Jesus had her say in front of everyone what she did and then commended her.

So the ways he interacted with women just were in your face to those who wanted to hold women back. I just gotta tell one more. Like when Jesus said to the Pharisees Simon, look at this woman. It could have been because some Pharisees wouldn’t even look at women. And he was making him look at her. Or it could just be that he was saying really look. Pay attention to this woman instead of dismissing her. Truly pay attention.

Ruth Perry (26:55)
What do you make of the people who want to say that Mary Magdalene and the women that witnessed the resurrection and were told to go and tell were just giving a testimony they weren’t preaching. Like what do you feel about the squabbling over the language of testifying or sharing versus preaching when it comes to women?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (27:14)
It is straining at a gnat in order to swallow a camel to use Jesus’ words.

Ruth Perry (27:20)
Amen. Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (27:22)
Because if you look at all of the language from all through the New Testament, for example, I was having a little debate with a man on Facebook due to one of my posts, you know, right?

Ruth Perry (27:33)
Yes.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (27:34)
If they if they stop being civil, I bid them, you know, adios. But this one, you know, was being respectful. And so we w we went back and forth probably 20, 25 times, you know, just and it was very interesting. And I I enjoyed the challenge because it helped me to look. And one of the things he said was, Well, when Priscilla taught Apollos, that word is more of an explaining word. It’s not the same authoritative.

You’re gonna hear that word a lot. Authoritative teaching that is used elsewhere in Acts, and that word was very much available to Luke. So he could have used the more authoritative word, but instead used this explaining word. so because of just having some basic skills, which any of your listeners can acquire, we have these wonderful tools like Bible Hub.

Where you go on there and you pick your passage, you you choose interlinear so that you have the Greek and the English next to each other. You find the English word, you see which words, word or words are are being used, where those English words came from in the Greek, could be one or more. You click on them, you can see everywhere else they’re used and where they come from and what the

core of the word is, what the prefixes and suffixes might be versus the root. And you can do your own word studies. You know, again, you gotta be careful not to draw big conclusions without checking with maybe some commentators. But you can at least do some exploring. So what I did was I just went to this so-called authoritative word, and then I discovered that, look, here it is in Colossians 3:16, where the entire congregation is being told to teach one another. Everyone in the congregation. So Paul uses these words, and Luke and all of them use these words very freely for all kinds of things. And so, all Luke was saying was, they sat down at length to explain because Apollos was teaching this and he wasn’t quite there yet, so they had to.

It says explain to him more fully. So this was a lot of teachings. That’s all he’s trying to do is say, this took some significant explaining. It wasn’t a ps come over here to the foyer for a second, you know. So yeah, this hair splitting about whether the women were just delivering some news or

bringing an authoritative message from Jesus. The big problem with all of this debate is a huge misunderstanding about authority. Let me get back to that for a minute, because

Ruth Perry (30:07)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (30:09)
when we start thinking that there’s a special kind of authority that people have, then I think that’s where we really get off the rails. I think we need to remember that it’s the word of God that has the authority, not the vessel who’s delivering the word. It’s the Holy Spirit that has the authority that gives me the word, that gives me a prophecy, you know, a word that I need to deliver to someone. I’m impressed to deliver that. It has nothing, really nothing to do about me except perhaps my level of surrender and a willingness to listen, willingness to obey. And we all know, we’ve heard the stories, I could name names of people, vile men that we know who delivered the truth, the word of God, and lives were changed.

Ruth Perry (30:58)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (30:58)
Millions around the globe. And then we find out, say after he’s dead, the horrific things he was doing. Did that particular man have authority? No, it was the word of God that had the authority, it was the Holy Spirit. And that’s

Ruth Perry (31:12)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (31:12)
the only comfort that I can take. Because so many people, they leave the church and they say it’s a bunch of hypocrites or it it doesn’t work because look at these people, they’re messing up and

You know, my own father was very abusive to my mother. And so for years I was like, How could he have the Holy Spirit? How could he be a Christian even? And when he was physically and verbally and emotionally and spiritually abusive, you know, in every way. And we have our besetting sins that we need to humbly address. But God will still use us when we deliver the truth from his word. And so it’s something to be cautious about in that we know that we we will not have reward in heaven if we didn’t do it with the right motive. Paul said some people preach out of jealousy.

Ruth Perry (32:03)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (32:03)
You know. and yet it’s also a comfort in that we know that with the right surrender and humility that God can still use us even though we’re not perfect and at all times holy, you know. So

Ruth Perry (32:19)
I like your point a lot better than the one I’ve heard a lot is well, God spoke through Balan’s document so he can use women too.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (32:27)
Yeah, that’s cute. but it’s still kind of putting down the vessel as if women are just one step above a donkey.

Ruth Perry (32:32)
Absolutely. Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (32:35)
And the fact is, we’re

created in God’s image exactly the same way men are. It says male and female, he created them in his image, he created them. And the hierarchalists will say, Well, sure, they’re ontologically equal, but just have different roles. But then here comes the so-called roles. One of them is to always be spiritually over and authoritatively over the other, only because they were born with the right physical, you know, is not at all logical, even. It’s just

Ruth Perry (33:08)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (33:09)
it is not obeying scripture, it is finding a way around scripture. Scripture couldn’t be, you know, okay, I shouldn’t use the word clear. I’m trying not to say clear, but they’re always saying clear. I could

Ruth Perry (33:20)
Yeah.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (33:21)
I could say it’s clear because God said, Look, I’m giving you dominion together. He had all these opportunities to say, man is the boss, man is overwoman, woman follow man. He never said any of those things. We’re just adding to scripture and assuming those things because that’s what people want to believe and assume. And then they flip it around and say that’s what we’re doing. It’s it’s it’s kind of maddening.

Ruth Perry (33:44)
Yeah, it really is. And I also really liked when you talked about Paul and the way that he spoke about people in ministry. And then how we turned those into

Lydia Grace Kaiser (33:51)
Right,

Ruth Perry (33:53)
titles. Can you tell us about that?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (33:55)
Yeah, again, all these words, he’s trying very hard to just use servant based egalitarian type words like co-worker. This this guy’s my coworker. You know, he doesn’t say I’m the senior elder and he is the junior elder, the assistant elder, or anything like that. It’s these diaconos servant, and co-worker type words, not titles, and yet this whole debate is based on titles. And now what functions supposedly go with those titles?

It’s getting to the point where it’s just untenable because how are we going to distinguish which functions are pastoral, when Al Moeller’s amendment said the pastoral functions, including preaching to the gathered assembly. Well, what are the other functions? You know, there’s a lot of things that are pastoral, and women are especially good at taking care of others and shepherding them. So where is it gonna end? It’s just so confusing. It is just unbiblical because yeah, Paul does not set up all these titles.

Ruth Perry (35:03)
Well, what would you say to somebody who is at the beginning of this journey of questioning complementarianism, but they have that fear of losing their community and their identity and you know, it’s a costly journey. What would you say to them?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (35:18)
Well, first I’d say read my book, because you really need to understand this inside and out and have deep conviction and not only conviction but excitement. I mean, the biggest tragedy in all of this is that our view of God has suffered. And so when you get a true and proper perspective of God through all this, and how actually God Himself is incredibly humble and what he’s done for us. It helps not only give courage, but it helps you to enter into that suffering with Jesus that is spoken of in Philippians, and you understand God’s heart, you feel his heart for you, and it helps you on that tough journey.

Because yeah, there will be a personal price to pay, more so for some people than others. But then you can know that Jesus is walking through this with you because he did it first. He was highly misunderstood, by family, especially, by people close to him and his community and the town that he grew up in, all the people that they knew his character, they knew he was a good, honest, hardworking businessman and took care of his widowed mother and siblings, and they knew all these things about his character. And yet they dismissed him. And, we’re told to expect the same. And sometimes we think that’s too hard. And sometimes we think, well, I’m not going to make that stand because I can’t bear to lose this that or the other. But what you don’t want to lose is Jesus. You don’t want to lose your relationship with Jesus. And this is so precious. I can’t even tell you how very, very precious it will be to you.

Ruth Perry (36:56)
I highly recommend your book. It was excellent. I really enjoyed reading it. I related and I learned new things. I’ve been on this journey myself for a long time, and I learned a lot from you. And so thank you for all the hard work that you’ve done. And I’m just so excited that God has led you into this study and that He’s gifted you so beautifully. And I pray that God uses you in amazing ways.

Can I give you the last word, Lydia, before we sign off? Is there anything else you’d like to share with my audience?

Lydia Grace Kaiser (37:23)
Well, thank you for that encouragement. I spent I think six years on the book. And no one but God knows, how much work that was and the price I’ve paid for coming out with it. And so just hearing that from you is really encouraging. I guess my last word is just that God is all about elevating and empowering others.

And I would like for each of your listeners to be free. Especially if you’re a woman who’s felt inhibited, who’s felt confused by why God would give you perhaps leadership or teaching abilities, but then tell you to hold back and wait for a man to do it. Just be free. Be free to say what God puts on your heart, with graciousness, of course, but with the same courage and conviction that any man would say it. Be free to dream and let God use you in big and small ways that you didn’t feel free to dream about before.

And be free to embrace the role of pastor, you know, to recognize that you’re a shepherd of those whom God has given you to disciple, even if it’s just a small group. Take that seriously and be a shepherd to those people. You don’t have to wait for someone to ordain you. You just do it. You have ordination from the Holy Spirit. And you could even consider starting and leading a small microchurch in your neighborhood or friend circle. And whatever dream God gives you. Find a common interest with some other people and bring the Lord into that and lead however God leads you. And I tell you what, let your life open up with all kinds of possibilities and it’ll be exciting.

Ruth Perry (38:57)
Amen and praise God. Yeah. Thank you for that good word and thank you for being here today. God bless.

Lydia Grace Kaiser (39:03)
Thank you for having me, Ruth.


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